ARTICLE: TALKING ABOUT DEATH AND DYING

Children should be told the truth using as much detail as he or she can understand. (age apporpriate)
Explanations should be simple, direct, and age appropriate.
Use of the proper words, such as death, died, or cancer is preferable to substitutes such as “passed away” or “sleeping”.
Encourage children to ask questions.
It’s ok for adults not to have all the answers and to give an honest “I just don’t know the answer to that one.”
Reassurance may be needed about their own security as children often worry about themselves and others.
Clarify that they are not responsible in any way - through feelings, actions or thoughts - for the death of their loved one.
Listen to and accept their feelings.